I'm experiencing a lot of "Best Ever's" recently; coincidence? I think not! Anyway, I'm now getting to the point where I can look back and see what I was doing one year ago training for my half and compare that to where I'm at and what I'm doing now. New Year's is a time that sticks out considerably. A stark contrast between how I rang in 2007 and how I rang in 2008, running-wise and otherwise. I can still remember how it was an hour or so before people were to come over last year and I laced up my orange Shox and started running .55 mile laps around the block, so that I could see if people started arriving and would be able to cut my run short. I wound up doing something like 8+ miles a few hours before the ball dropped. Then I distinctly remember gathering in the living room, surrounded by family and lots of Scott's friends and family friends and adopted friends and the like(the one friend solely of mine having departed for NJ around 2230), then the countdown, the noise and shouting and cheering, the obligatory kissing everyone and wishing them a HAPPY NEW YEAR, the march outside with pots and pans to noisily welcome it, the obligatory disrobing of garments, then undergarments, and the chilly but enthusiastic- and slightly inebriated- dash up and down the block to signal a fresh start and keep with tradition (The PG-13 version is on Facebook somewhere). I remember all that vividly and the way one remembers something that seems simultaneously light years and minutes away.
This year was the start of a new tradition. One with decidedly more clothes, but running, unsurprisingly, is the constant. I did the
NYRR Emerald Nuts Midnight Run in Central Park. Admittedly, I intitially decided to do this race because the family decided not to have another New Year's party but moreso because Lauren was doing it, and I figured it'd be a great ice breaker. Apparently, that was unneccessary, and now it just afforded us the opportunity to celebrate the start of 2008 by doing our first race, of sorts, together. This was decidedly a fun run, with no official time being recorded and as far as I know, no awards or anything. Just running 4 miles in the park at the stroke of midnight, with thousands of other revelers and an accompanying fireworks display. There was some 6 or so other members of her family who also participated, and we all lined up together at the start.
I look down at my watch at 11:59 and see the seconds tick away, then BOOM, fireoworks explode in the sky signaling the start of the year. Nothing,
NOTHING beats a New Year's kiss that means it, and that was the very first thing I did in 2008. Then the same well wishing and 'Happy New Year'-ing, and a shuffle to the official start that lasts some ten minutes.
At the start, Laur and I take off in earnest. I was supposed to pace her, but I didn't do a terribly efficient or effective job of this starting out. I'll chalk it up to adrenaline, excitement, something but I definitely started too fast. We conquered cat hill fairly easily, myself learning to salute the statue some steps from the summit. After that though, the wheels came off. She started feeling some serious pains and was struggling just to keep moving. My best encouragements and enthusiasms were falling on ears that did not want to hear any of it.
If I was unsure in any way that Lauren was not the absolute perfect girlfriend for me, this race helped cement it. Not because we went particularly fast or anything. Because when I tried to encourage her and help her try to deal with the pain and the fact that we were apparently doing 10+ minute miles, she was having none of it. She was actually getting rather snippy and short with me. And about a mile into this, I realized that this was EXACTLY how I would react if the roles were reversed. We are both perfectionists who
ask demand the absolute best of ourselves, especially so when it comes to running. She wasn't thinking about WHAT or WHY she was not racing up to her peak capabilities, just harping on the fact that she wasn't. I've done this, and will do this in the future too and I would expect whoever I'm dating to have that same attitude about running and racing. To be able to understand that mindset, let alone share it. Towards the end she lightened and tried to apologize, something I wanted to hear none of myself: there was nothing to apologize for. I was, and am, SO PROUD of her for finishing despite experiencing "the worst physical pain ever, EVER." I was even more impressed when we neared the final turn before the finish and we started to pick it up, and kicking it into high gear through the finish, who cares about the time, we did it! and, the best part, a post-race celebratory New Year's smooch.
The whole experience from the pre-race music, the impromptu swing and salsa and silly dancing, the fact that Ingrid, Mike, and Becca were also there cheering us, the ridic costumes some people wore, holding hands at various points along the course (which felt decidedly and somewhat surprisingly un-lame), it was all amazing. I got to do this New Year's in almost exactly the opposite of last years. Where last year, I was alone running in circles with no fanfare and considerable pain in my knee and ankle, this year I was surrounded by thousands of people in the Park, including some of the most amazing people I know personally, with fireworks so brilliant at one point I turned around and ran backwards to soak in the grand finale, strangers lining the whole course giving out high fives and "HAPPY NEW YEARS", and no pain of my own, except for a little arch soreness from the previous 15 miler. I'm sure my legs will feel it tomorrow and for a few days, but it was all worth it.
I could not possibly think of a better, more fun, more gratifying, more perfect way to celebrate the start of 2008. This marked the end of one New Year's tradition. Here's to this,
everything involved in this, becoming the new tradition, for the forseeable and expansive future.